Everything you do in life is a choice!
Every thing you think about, every thing you do is first and foremost a choice where you in your brain have answered a question. And based on your programming, values and beliefs, you make a choice.
Everything you do - think or act - first, after a conscious or unconscious choice, a choise you made.
And all the choices you make are based on the internal answers you receive on your internal questions. And the questions you ask, what kind of questions, how you formulate them, and what options you give yourself, as well as the answers you come up with, are based on your programming as described earlier - meaning what you think is true and real (your beliefs), what you stand for and who you are (your values and self-image), as well as your past experiences from similar situations and choices.
Now, ff what I stated above is true ..... what does it mean in your life and in my life?
If we could change our programming, what we believe in and our values - can we make new choices and create new results, which create new experiences and references for us? Off course we can!!
Yours and my life could then look quite different - just because we can now make other choices!
It means new choices, which could give you new skills and hence new opportunities to move on to what you are looking for. The knowledge you have and the choices you have previously made have taken you to where you are today, but by changing your programming you can make new choices and therefore become what you want.
Select - deselect, Deselect - select
One thing that might be good to be aware of, is that each time you make a choice, and select to go one way in life, to take an opportunity, at the same time, you deselect at least one other option. Similarly, whenever you deselect something, you open up for new opportunities to enter your life. You just have to be open to all opportunities that come your way. And because the universe is infinite and consists of an abundant abundance, the opportunities and selection you have are in principle unlimited.
Everyone makes the best choice they can
Yet another thing that's important to carry with you, especially if you experience being hurt by someone else, you have been deceived or upset for something that another person has done - Everyone (yes, all, really, all) people, make the best choices they can, based on the situation and the resources they perceive they have at their disposal.
Their motives can sometimes be perceived selfish, and so it may be, since one of the brain's most basic functions is to make sure that you as an individual are safe and secure.
No matter - everyone makes the choices they think is best.
A choice must have at least 3 options
Tony Robbins, one of the absolute greatest in personal development, peak performance and development towards success, says:
You really do not have the opportunity to make a good choice until you have at least 3 options to hoose from. So if you do not have 3 options - make no decision until you think about everything and be able to get at least 3 options. Ath that point, you have the opportunity to make a good decision.
We will come back with tools for doing your programming, creating new values and beliefs so that you can make better choices.
